Most women seek to remake their men, who with the help of "training", who with the help of "education". It happens that forgiving female love still fails. Is it possible to initially determine the "inappropriate" man, so as not to waste time and energy on him?
Psychologists have identified a number of characteristic factors to which a woman should pay attention, especially at the time of falling in love.
A set of certain qualities
There are men who are fundamentally important that a woman has a certain set of qualities and skills. Such men, looking for their future spouse, pay attention to whether she knows how to clean, wash clothes, cook food, care for him and be faithful and submissive. If at least one of the qualities ceases to suit him, then the man tries to find himself a new passion. Attempts to convince such a man of wrong have no success.
Drinking addiction
We are talking about amateur drink a glass or two. If it seems to you that this harmless habit is needed by a man only to relieve fatigue, then you are greatly mistaken. Such a way to "relax" can develop into alcohol addiction.
Low self-esteem
A man with low self-esteem in the event of your success will have a constant feeling of annoyance. Subsequently, he will put you a condition - the choice between family or career. And if a woman goes to his conditions, puts an end to her desires and devotes herself to domestic concerns, then against the background of his wife, a man will suddenly “spread his wings”, become a hero and breadwinner.
Future life
Think about what your life together will be, for example, in ten years. And how satisfied? A mental view of the future is the only way to look at relationships from the side and see if you want them or not.
Chosen one lives at your expense
Your man did not find a decent job, he "only opens the case." Perhaps you live with your parents or in a rented apartment, which you pay again. You do all the shopping on your own, solve all the problems, and so day after day. Pay attention, maybe your man is comfortable, and he is comfortable to live in such a way as not to solve any problems.
Analyze his behavior and your relationship, face it. Perhaps this is the moment when you should understand that you are different and disperse. Do not despair, there are no hopeless situations.
